Do I look older? Probably older than if I colored, but I don't care. Who am I trying to fool? :-) I resent the over emphasis of youth as the only representation of beauty anyway.
I don't wear makeup, so I'm the wrong person to ask about looking pale. If you're looking for a more polished or professional look, I certainly think you can achieve it with gray(ing) hair.
I understand it can be scary. It took me a while to figure out what was important to me. I do it for so many reasons - needing to learn to love myself as I am is part of it, but a hatred of the beauty industry, laziness, cheapness, and getting a kick out of not doing what's expected of me all play a role too.
Salt & pepper wavy mix 2B/2C
Low to normal porosity, coarse, kinky, normal elasticity
Low poo: Yes To Cukes Color Protection (the no sulfate one)
Conditioners: Renpure MPHIP, CJ SL, AB LI
Style: FSG, BRHG
Pre-poo/DT: Conditioner with honey & coconut oil
iHerb discount code: PNQ285
Last edited by CurlyGrey3; 06-14-2013 at 07:53 AM.