Our properties are very similar, my faves are in my siggy. I prefer more natural products and my hair has yet to meet a protein it didn't like.

For my hair I look for protein, emollients like fatty alcohols, few to zero oils or butters and NO glycerin

I've had decent results with DermOrganic, Mill Creek Botanicals, Curl Junkie, Giovanni, Natures Gate, Cure Care and Ion from Sally's, SheScentIt and Spiral Solutions.
2A / F / MD / LP / ?E / BSL --- CG since Dec. 2012

This is what I'm happiest with right now.
Co-wash: CJ DailyFix
Lo-poo: DermOrganic low-poo
RO: SS Caitlin's co
Leave-in: SheScentIt Okra Repair condish
PT: SS Caitlin's + SS PT
Stylers: Volumax Mega Gel, Max Green Styling Gel, DermOrganics Spray Gel
Techniques: Plopping & Pixie Diffusing.
glycerin, honey, oils & butters Protein!