As a city girl raised in the country now living in the city who has tent-camped many times, your attitude will determine how enjoyable the experience is. I'm a girly-girl who would MUCH rather glamp rather than camp. But, I have rough tent-camped many times and have enjoyed it thoroughly, even though I was skeeved out by the bugs, dirt, etc. I get really nervous outdoors at night, too. But, I love the outdoors and the smell of a campfire and all that comes with camping, so a slight (ok, major) adjustment of my attitude made enjoyment of those things possible.