Hugs, positive thoughts prayers!!! You are my hero for being so calm and brave. Much respect! (But I am still very sorry to hear this news.)
I had drains following an abdominoplasty and I wore a work ID badge neck lanyard thing around my neck in the shower and either clipped the drains onto the lanyard or hung them from the lanyard. If clips were involved, then the dr's office provided them for me bc I wouldn't have thought to go buy something like that. I just tried to stand as still as possible while washing and they always remained in place, even when they were heavy and full.
3b (with 3c tendencies) on modified CG