I KNOW these threads have good intentions, but they come off as exclusive/clique-y to me.
Originally Posted by Amneris
Why? I am curious why you feel this way. Could it be phrased differently/more approriately?
Originally Posted by TRBL
I've said it before in reference to those "favorite poster"-type threads, but it's apropos in this situation, too. Though I think "exclusive/clique-y" is appropriate enough, it could also be described as a popularity contest. In any event, under any name, threads of this nature leave some of those who aren't mentioned feeling excluded and/or with their feelings hurt.

This is in response to TRBL's question, not an admission of my own feelings. Haha, I already know where I stand, and I'm good with it. No one else has to agree with my assessment.

Also, I second SL's advice. There's also a non-FB board as well.
OK, I admit it.....I'm an alias! I wasn't born with the name Honeycurls!
Dood, get over it; there's no time limit on lurking.

I so busy runnin' allllllll over the place and ain't nobody chasin' me!

Last edited by Honeycurls; 07-01-2013 at 06:03 PM.