I'm also in the Bay Area, not quite as coastal as SF, and this week the dews are abnormally high because of the heat and recent rain. Dew point here today is 67. Normally we fall into the optimal range all the time. So if your hair is wigging out and frizzing more than usual, it may get better in the next week or so. I'm just mentioning this as an additional issue to what others have brought up already.
3a/b, F, normal porosity

Wash with either Suave Tropical Coconut, As I Am, or CJ Daily Fix
Condition with STC or Yes to Blueberries and detangle with Denman, rinse very lightly (baptismal rinse)
Add LAL gel, either Sport or Wet Look, scrunch with flour sack towel, and plop
Diffuse 5 minutes, then air dry