Your hair may be frizzing from the build up of the cones. Cones in and of themselves aren't bad, but if you're only shampoo'ing once a month it becomes a problem. If you really want to keep using this conditioner you might want to switch to a low poo and cleanse your hair more often.
3C/Fine to Medium/Low Porosity/High Density
CJ Gentle Cleansing Shampoo
DB Pumpkin Seed Curl Moisturizing Conditioner
CJ Smoothing Lotion
Queen Helene Sculpturing Gel & Glaze
No Salts, No Waxes, No Butters, No Heavy Oils
No ACV, No Saponified Oils, Protein Sensitive