Thank you! I just always want her to know that someone is still thinking of her - I don't think I will stop until I know something. She has either become totally homebound or she does not associate with anyone from the past. I sometimes become angry that she can't be there to be my friend during this part of our lives, but I know what she is going through is difficult and do not want to cause her any additional pain. All we can do for those we are close to and love is let them know we care about them. Best of luck to you and your bf.