I have no idea how to style unclumpy (I was actually going to start a thread about this myself) because most of the techniques on this board are for encouraging clumps!
I like my clumps sometimes, but not always, and I really want to know how to acheieve an alternative! When my hair is super clumpy I generally lose volume... a BIG bummer for me. (I actually started a thread about this... I'm struggling! Definition vs. volume
BTW I think your hair looks great! Did she suggest any ways to style unclumpy?