I have to add that what your doing now is learning the proper moisture-protein balance for your hair. This requires some trial and error and is completely individualized. It is also a very basic aspect of good haircare so once you figure it out you'll see more consistent good hair days and it will become easier as well. I went back and forth between being overconditioned and overproteined a few times before I learned exactly what balance my hair needs. Don't be discouraged! It is good to add things in increments as a general rule of thumb... so as you up the protein, do it incrementally until you get good results.
fine - normal porosity*?- medium density - normal elasticity. Hard water. SoCal.
*Used to be low-porosity, but I lightened my hair 1-2 shades, so I may be normal-porosity now.

New climate! Current favorites:
Low-poo: CJ Gentle Cleansing Shampoo, Giovanni SaS
RO: V05 Kiwi Lime
Styler: UFD CM (old formula), FSG + CNPF
PT: CJ Repair Me, IAgirl's gelatine

Experimenting with: JC Confident Coils, JC Rockin Ringlets, CJ CIAB, gelatin gel

iherb discount code: CFN646