I think someone has passive-aggressive issues. I would be embarrassed to tell anyone I could smell them (farting children aside, haha)--what a really odd thing to say. Saying "Your lotion smells nice" or something like that is one thing, but "I can smell you" is a little...serial killerish.
3a/b, F, normal porosity

Wash with either Suave Tropical Coconut, As I Am, or CJ Daily Fix
Condition with STC or Yes to Blueberries and detangle with Denman, rinse very lightly (baptismal rinse)
Add LAL gel, either Sport or Wet Look, scrunch with flour sack towel, and plop
Diffuse 5 minutes, then air dry