Personally I think the Shea Moisture Moisture Retention shampoo is fantastic and would work for any hair type. It's very gentle and moisturizing. Tresemme Naturals Nourishing Moisture conditioner is also one that would work for all hair types. For CO washing, Suave and VO5 are both very popular.
3a/b, F, normal porosity

I've gotten my routine down to the bare essentials, finally
Wash: Suave Tropical Coconut
Leave-in: Suave Everlasting Sunshine, detangle with Denman brush
Gel: LAL Sport or Wet Look
Scrunch with flour sack towel, plop 10 minutes, air dry
Refresh with either plain water or Suave/water mix