It has been 10 years literally since I cut my hair, My 20th wedding anniversary is next week and I am going on vacation so I decided to treat myself to a trim. I emphasized to hairdresser please just a trim I don't want to lose my length. she gave me a bob from the 80s it looks horrible. She then used some products that has made my hair so hard and frizzy. the bottle said devachan but the smell was not and the texture was not either.

anyone can give me advise how to improve my hair? I know I cant get my length back but my texture is all out of whack. any deep condition ?
Hair type: mix of everything but bushy
"Do not brush curly hair, it makes it look like bad scribbles"
my 5 year old curly haired girl, now a teen