My mom's hair is like that too, I think she uses a mascara until she dyes it next. I don't have enough white hairs for this problem yet, but my temples have white hairs so I'll keep an eye out for answers to this thread. It's good to be prepared for the future! I'll probably be gray within the next 5 years anyway (thanks mom and dad!)
2BC/f/II. fine - low/normal porosity - medium density - normal elasticity.

Currently using:
Low-poo: Jason Mango bodywash
Cowash: Cure Care diluted with water 1:1
RO: Cure Care, V05 Kiwi Lime
Styler: UFD CM (old formula), FSG + CNPF
PT: IAgirl's gelatine

light moisture, hydrolized protein, jelly stylers
guar hydroxypropyltrimonium chloride, sulfates, jojoba oil
Neutral on cones.

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