Well, the judge just continued my ****ing divorce trial! No idea when it will be rescheduled. My mother came out to testify and spent $4,000 for her plane ticket, her rental car and for someone to stay w/ my father...and now she will have to come back. So I have to listen to her mouth, the guy I'm sort of dating's mouth, I can't finish the renovations I need to do on my house and I'm going to continue obsessing about this crap for who knows how much longer to the exclusion of everything else in my life. And for every month this **** drags on, he is entitled to that much more of my retirement and I am responsible for that much more of his bills.

That was the bad news. Now the good news...

hmmmmmmm

I can't think of any.....

I guess I will come out of this a more patient and cautious person.
3b (with 3c tendencies) on modified CG