You can make it or if you don't mind mag sulfate get Jessicurl Rockin Ringlets or search Etsy for someone who makes it. It's fairly universally loved for making hair behave and very hard to "overdo". Another product people love as a first line after conditioning is CHS Curl Keeper. (Which some gals just get some KY Jelly as they are fairly solar-kid you not ). What's your weather like?