I'm 3b -- I would sooo appreciate it if you would share the links that worked for you, so that I can check them out to see if they might work for me.
I am tempted sometimes to buy a gentle at-home relaxer (if there is such a thing) to loosen my 3b curls a bit. I would still air-dry, so I was hoping I wouldn't have to do ironing or blow-drying to initially activate the relaxer product.
Type: 3b/3c (i), below shoulder length. Modified CG since 5/2004; growing gray since 5/2007.
CO wash: A-O GPB LYY, Salon Care Honey Almond, Devacurl OC, rotating others
Leave-ins: BWC, KCKT, coconut oil overnight
Styling: BRHG, MGA Sculpting Gel, Aubrey Organics Mandarin Magic Gel, LOTD AVG, LALSG
DT: Terax Crema, Moroccan Oil Restorative Mask, Je Veux Revitalizing Mud Mask