I want to keep my beautiful waves, but they keep curling outwards when I use my gel to the point where you can't even see my neck anymore (360 around). The back of my head is bulged out too. (this is all with ecostyler)

Will olive oil help?
Sing with Barney tune:
Frizz loves me
I hate frizz
It sticks to me
like a kid
with some creams
and some gel
and then nothing does the trick
Please help me
My curly friends.