There's a lot of stuff I want to give my daughter, but I keep learning that first and foremost, it's love. Education is also at the top of the list, so is confidence and experience. But every time I concentrate too hard on one - right now it's maintaining GPA to optimize scholarship potential - I stress the both of us out and we're at odds. All of that does not matter unless our kids feel happy, motivated, and loved. Sometimes I have to stop the argument and just give her a hug and tell her I love her.