Check your products for silicones. I think that Argan curl Creme has silicones in it. If you are not sulfate shampooing this is going to add to your problems. You can use a dryer but you must use a diffuser with it. Many 2s use a low sulfate shampoo or Nopoo or if you have a Sally's a lot of people live the As I Am cleaning conditioner. Enough cleanser to get you clean without stripping. You JUST use it in your scalp. Here's a good demo http://youtu.be/RCP2_UApOB4 of how to wash (cowash or low/Nopoo)

You can see several videos I made on YouTube under Youtube.com/chupie. I haven't seen a weak wavy like us do vids so I put some up. Maybe you will get some ideas.