Does it feel like he might be vying for your attn? That he was pouting the night it happened bc you were so (rightfully) preoccupied w/ your daughter and her family...and now trying to get your focus back on him?

Maybe he needs to be reassured he is still important?

IDK. But I want the recipe for Paleo crackers!

Yes, I agree w/ your post earlier that God can allow certain things to happen in your life to make you grow and bring you closer to him.
3b (with 3c tendencies) on modified CG