Sorry, forgot to add some thoughts about your friends: They probably mean well, but even if they were all his best friends from childhood, they don't come home to him every day. They don't have the privilege of knowing every quirky, ass-end realm of him.

If/when you free yourself from this r-ship, I would just ask them to be there for you as a source of emotional support.
3b/c?

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