Do check out the stickies on the newbies board and this one. learn about the Curly Girl method. Definitely stop brushing and combing your hair out - that separates the hairs into individual strands (ie. frizz).
If you have been flat ironing and relaxing your hair is probably fairly damaged, that will make hair frizz and be difficult to control. It may be you would do best with a good haircut instead of fighting fried hair. You likely have six inches or so of hair that has not been relaxed.
Proven beneficial ingredients for damaged hair include coconut oil, hydrolysed protein, ceramides, 18-MEA and panthenol.
2a-2c, medium texture, porous/ colour treated. Three years CG, growing out mechanical and chemical damage = breakage and very high porosity. Past armpit length heading for waist.
CO-wash: Inecto coconut
Treatments: Komaza Matani, coconut oil, Hairveda Sitrinillah
Leave in: Fructis Sleek & Shine (old), Gliss ultimate volume, Inecto argan
Styler: Umberto Giannini jelly, Boots Essentials gel
Experimenting with: going back to basics