I would suggest using one of your conditioners as a leave in. The products you are using as a leave in are basically stylers. So this would give you 3 layers of product, instead of 2. I would try laying off of the protein right now and see if that helps as well. Too much protein can dry your hair out and have a negative effect. HTH
2c-3a - coarse - normal-high porosity - high density - growing out to donate

NP/LP: KMF Whenever Conditioner/ YTCucs
RO/LI: Sevi Pumpkin Seed DC / CJ Argan & Olive Oil, KCKT, YTBbs
DT: Coconut Oil + scalp massage
OIL/STYLER: SM Elixir / KCCC
COLOR: henna, amla & indigo