Thanks Korkscrew and ADThomas. I was really worried. I was the black girl who was teased for acting "white" and got wide eyed when I tell people I did not get into rap until later on in life. I really had to quote you Thomas on the "stay black and die" comment because that was what I was feeling when she was saying stop telling her this and that. I was telling my mom this story too and she wasn't fussing either. It felt good to get that off my chest though. That is one drawback of being in Taiwan hard to get "kitchen table talk" in.