I only have a few words for you, and please listen (or read) closely.
You got yourself out of situations that you didn't want to be in. That doesn't make you a loser, that makes you a strong woman who knows what she wants and doesn't want. I actually admire you for this, because a lot of women would just put up with it.
You are awesome.
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NP/LP: KMF Whenever Conditioner/ Sevi Pumpkin Seed or Seabuckthorn Berry, YTCucs
RO/LI: Sevi Pumpkin Seed DC / CJ Argan & Olive Oil, KCKT, Komaza Aloe My Hair LI
PRE-POO/DT: Coconut Oil + scalp massage
OIL/STYLER: SM Elixir / KCCC, DC Light Defining Gel
COLOR: henna, amla & indigo
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