You definitely are not a loser.
The only loser in this picture would be your soon-to-be-ex, if he even can't admit that he has a drinking problem.
Like Sixelamy said, you just are a strong woman who knows what she wants and doesn't want.
Most women in a similar situation try to put up with their husbands, and end up to be feeling miserable for the rest of their lives. You still have a chance to find happiness, and even if it isn't with "the one", you at least have your dog and without a man you can give your dog as much attention as you want.
First enjoy your freedom, and who knows what will happen next?
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