Take your time! Don't go for the scissors yet!
Use the heaviest of the heaviest conditioner you have, and slowly start detangling. Start at the bottom of your hair and work your way up! This way there is less pressure on the hair. Also, do you happen to have Kinky Curly Knot Today? Whenever my tangles get so bad I get natural dreads, KCKT is the only thing that perfectly gets the tangles out.
At hip length, going for mid-thigh!
M MP HE HD (med text, med por, high elast, high dens)
Clarify: Nivea Intense Repair
Lo-poo: Nature's Gate CR
RO: TBS Rainforest Moisture, etc
LI: Elvive volume collagen, KCKT
Seal: Grapeseed oil
Gel: Kiss My Face
PT: EO Keratin co
Hair growth stim.: JBCO+EVCO
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