This might sound weird but I sort of taught my boyfriend how to play with my hair without getting himself all tangled in it and pulling out the curls. My issue now is my nephew, who is a year old and thinks my hair is the most fun toy ever. He always wants to brush it. Lol He'll have to Learn that brushes aren't for curls.
3a, dense, fairly coarse, normal porosity and elasticity, just below shoulder
Low poo: Giovanni 50 50
Co-wash: aia, suave coconut, salon care
R O: Tresume Naturals, gvpcb
L I: KCKT, gvpcb
Stylers: cjpp, re : coil, kccc, brhg
Oils: coconut, argan
Experimenting with: curls rock amplifier, pantene mousse