From what you've said it sounds like low porosity hair, so try treating your hair as such and see what happens.

Might be worth getting a hair analysis though, just to be sure
3B. Medium porosity. Medium Thickness. High density.

Low-poo: SM Coconut & Hibiscus
Conditioner: Jason Moisturising Aloe Vera

Leave-in: Aunt Jackie's Curls & Coils Quench Moisture Intensive OR a baptism rinse.
Gel: Ouidad Climate Control Heat & Humidity
Re-moisturising/refreshing: TRESemmé Naturals conditioner


UK curly. CG since October 2013.
Growing my hair out Rapunzel-style