i agree with the others, love your cut!

have you read the book, "going gray, looking great," by diana jewel? it's a great book, i got mine from the library. has lots of suggestions regarding colors, makeup, etc. she has a website but it is a newer format now, less of one than it was. however, you can join the website (it's free) and will probably get more info. i found both her book and the website supportive as i went thru this.

i stopped coloring my hair 5 years ago and there are still one or two who tell me i should dye it again. most people love it. i love it and that is all that matters. it sounds like this is something you want to do, so don't listen to others.
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3a, some 2c & 3b, medium texture, porosity normal, low elasticity
washing/cowashing, conditioning, protein tx: curl junkie products
leave in:cj conditioners and treatments as leave in
styling: cj pattern pusha, cj honey butta leave in, cj cccc, cj ciab, lalsg. cj aloe fix gel is my high dews/summer HG!!
sealants - spiral solutions emollience butter, jane carter nourish & shine