Is this the other book you ladies are referring to? It was definitely about the journey, not tips about looking good with gray hair. I liked it.

http://www.amazon.com/Going-Gray-Mot...+looking+great

I am very salt and pepper now, and I constantly get compliments on my hair. Young, old, men, women - and I have had SO many people ask if I dyed my hair like this, lol!
Sulfate/non-water-soluble silicone free since 8/16/10
Northern VA
Med-coarse, normal porosity, low elasticity
Dye-free since 11/2010