I was adopted by a white family (I am mixed with italian polynesian Filipino and other things) and whenever me and my grandparents would go somewhere my grandpa would always say.. 'Arent you going to brush you hair?' ... I just did.... haha

Also various hair stylists commenting on how my hair is the knottiest they've ever seen...
And the awkwardness that filled the air whenever I complained about my hair and people forced a compliment out that probably wasn't genuine... Haha -__- it's difficult to love your hair when not many other people seem to.