This just happened to me this past weekend. We went over to our friends house and they noticed a difference in my hair. They thought I had a perm and I said no, I have decided to stop frighting my natural hair and am learning how to properly take care of it and it has helped a ton. One of the ladies was really interested and I gave her a curl ambassador card.
My other friend commented that I had JBF hair. I told her I didn't know what that meant and she explained bout CFM hair in the 80's. If you don't know what these letter stand for I really can't explain here but as it was explained to me most people know what it means. (J=Just B=Been, C=Come M=me) And, she thought she was complimenting me