I wish I could figure out how to avoid overconditioning! There is just such a fine line with my hair as it sounds like yours iwantcurlyhair...I ended up doing a low poo today and my hair turned out great and nice and curly...
pw: curls
Cowash - No Poo, Suave Coconut
Conditioner - One Condition
Leave In - KCKT
Gel - KCCC at the moment