ugh, i can totally relate. today even! i thought i was having a great hair day with lots of volume and great curl formation/defintion. my mom [who had very short hair that she heat styles everyday
] started running her fingers through it saying it looked "messy" and a "rat's nest" UGH!!!! she acts like she knows everything about curly hair and i'm absolutely clueless! uh, i know when i'm having a bad hair day, mom!!!