Try the Awe with the little towel; it really help combat frizz and give you curl deginition. You will have to post pictures too so that we can see your hair. I would love to find some hair twins

I used to try to get my hair to lie down a little...the grass is always greener on the other side, right!?

I have currently decided to stop fighting my hair and just go with. It always wins anyway....it's like a force of nature
That completely makes sense about how your hair makes your face look. For years I wanted bangs. I have a little face and with bangs my face looks even smaller. I think that we each have to go with what works for us. No use trying to make ourselves or our hair into something it is not!
I will post under your CK thread too