a guy i was dating made some comments about my weight....(i lost some)...it really hurt my feelings. at one point he told me i was "one pancake away from 175 lbs" he used to seem fixated on my weight (always asking me how much i weight and stuff like that) but apparently he liked the larger me. i wasn't 175 (but close enough to where him saying that seemed inappropriate)....

well i got into the 150's and he started saying rude stuff....like how i had no butt, etc. i'm sorry but to me when you lose weight (assuming you're working out)....you keep your general shape but there's just less there....i'm much happier w/ the new me (i'm currently 14....my goal was to be 138-142 (i'm 5'9") but if i'm 140-145 and tone i think i'll be happy.....
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