Oh I know who you are talking about , Her hair is awesome and she takes wonderful care of it , I posted her site in 4a , i think her name is crazy coil.. she can teach all of us ALOT!Anika, I will say that just because you have not personally seen a 4B/zig zag type hair doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. In fact there is a black woman with a website (I forget the name) who took one lone strand of her 4B hair and put it next to a ruler (she was trying to demonstrate how much her hair shrinks). The strand did not have ONE iota of a HINT of a curl. It was almost like an accordian. But it was beautiful nonetheless.
I've seen plenty of black women who have what would be considered 4B hair that just DOES NOT have a curl. I remember one main focus (that I happen to love) at Nappturality is trying to get black women to accept that all black hair is not curly and it's OKAY if it's not. Why are you so hard pressed for all black hair to be at least SOMEWHAT curly? If it's not, it's NOT. And if these women don't consider their hair to be curly, then so be it. And if you go on Nappturality talking about how 4B hair is also curly, you might be met with more backlash than you anticipate. If you think we're bad, they're worse. LOL. They'll be the FIRST ones to tell you their hair isn't curly and they are DAMN proud of it. And they should be.