#1: What gels do you use from the other side of the aisle?
I have spongy hair that covers 3b-4a hairtypes. I have heard some suggestions about Sebastian Wet (Sally's version) and Herbal Essences Humidity Defying Gel. I am looking for gels that are not generally placed in the "ethnic" aisle. I only use those when I want to slick the hair back, but they make my super-thick hair dry SLOOOOOOOW. Any suggestions?