Hi Josie,
Try the r:coil when it comes in, it could be the parts of your hair that you said were highlighted many times that aren't curling well. Keep conditioning. I like your hair and you don't look like a boy. I'm not too far from you. I'm in Old Bridge
3b, modified CG, short inverted bob living in Central Jersey
Current faves: no poo, HE Hello Hydration, ck, Shea Moisture, Mixed Chicks
PW colombia
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