I use Avalon Organics nourishing shampoo. It's non-sulfate and has lavender in it!
It is my first sulfate free poo. I haven't tried any others. I wash about every other day. I also scrub my scalp with Giovanni tea tree oil condish. It helps when my scalp gets really itchy.
I tried going no poo for about a week and my hair was awful. I'm a wavy and I must poo!!
Also the lovely ladies on the 2b board pointed me to Jessicurl Aloeba
. Love it love it love it!!