well, before I found this site (which is about 4 days ago) I was on the brink of getting my hair straightened, but then I read here that there are millions of ways to take care of your curls and still make them look good. i'm not there yet, but i'm working on it.
"Some are afraid of what they might find if they try to analyze themselves 2much, but you have to crawl into your wounds to discover where your fears are. Once the bleeding starts, the cleansing can begin."~tori amos~