It's scary simple!
I condition wash with Avalon Organics Botanicals (from my old 'cone free formula stash) maybe once a week.
Other days I just massage, rinse, condition the length. Leave a lot in, quick cool rinse.
Do a haphazard combination of microfiber plop, diffuse, air dry.
Spritz on some lavender mist mixed with above condish as it dries.
Sometimes use a smidge of Kenra pomade at the end to define.
If my hair feels blah or weighed down, I wash with the Avalon 'poo (coco betaine). I haven't felt the need lately though.
Once every one to two months I use Aveda Detoxifier followed by the Jessicurl homemade DT recipe.