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Minnie_Mouse 03-26-2011 10:53 PM

As a natural-haired woman are you attracted to natural-haired men?
 
I'm bringing this up because I saw a guy on the street today whose hair was blown out into a beautiful huge afro and he made me want to have his babies. I think his hair is what really made me find him attractive. What about y'all?

Demebear 03-26-2011 11:17 PM

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Oh yes! A bunch of guys are sporting locs and fros lately and I feel like it enhances their features.A prime example of the fro really catching my eye are French dancers Les Twins

Minnie_Mouse 03-27-2011 12:56 AM

Damn.....they are hawt.

I seriously think I'm feeling the natural-haired brothers. xD

Tuchie09 03-27-2011 01:26 AM

Whether I was natural or not I was always attracted to a man that wore his hair naturally. I thought that men ALWAYS wore their hair naturally to be honest :laughing2:

It's not just because I'm natural, I just think a guy who gets relaxers, jheri curls, texturizers, or even colors their hair is unnattractive and/or gay so yeah, always have and will be attracted to men who wear their natural hair. :thumbup:

Demebear 03-27-2011 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Tuchie09 (Post 1616551)
Whether I was natural or not I was always attracted to a man that wore his hair naturally. I thought that men ALWAYS wore their hair naturally to be honest :laughing2:

It's not just because I'm natural, I just think a guy who gets relaxers, jheri curls, texturizers, or even colors their hair is unnattractive and/or gay so yeah, always have and will be attracted to men who wear their natural hair. :thumbup:

That's how I feel about good old Chris Breezy after he died his hair blond. Now he just reminds me of sisco and that's not a good thing.

ebonyrose31626 03-27-2011 01:02 PM

Yeah, they're hottt.

Fronomenal 03-27-2011 01:24 PM

I have always loved men with fros (small or large) or locs. Especially locs. :love4:
Men w/ straightened/chemically-treated hair never were never on my radar...nor will they ever be.

nana_banana 03-27-2011 09:09 PM

Yes!

Last year I saw a guy with a very nice small afro and a very sharp looking suit. He looked so, so good!

Naturemademe 03-27-2011 09:43 PM

YES!!!
 
One name... MAXWELL.. Circa 1996 - whenever he chopped it off. I had dreams about him to the point where I thought I had a stalker status problem in my dreams.

He's still sexy now, but with all that hair he had me wishing I had his babies. :laughing2::laughing2:

ajna 03-27-2011 10:22 PM

I love dreads! Wait let me fix that up I love well kept dreads cuz the ones that look like things are living in it will make me run for the hills. I do not think I could date a man with an s-curl or a perm.

Minnie_Mouse 03-27-2011 11:50 PM

I saw this man in the store one time. His dreads were on point. They were neat, small, and plentiful. They looked so pretty I did a triple take. But when I walked by him and caught a whiff.......I wondered when was the last time he washed them thangs. :-?

breathe 03-28-2011 10:47 AM

I'll be honest, I don't really like the look of locs on men for some reason. It's always nice to see a black man rocking more than a quarter inch of hair, though. LOL.

ReynaCR 03-28-2011 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Tuchie09 (Post 1616551)
Whether I was natural or not I was always attracted to a man that wore his hair naturally. I thought that men ALWAYS wore their hair naturally to be honest :laughing2:

It's not just because I'm natural, I just think a guy who gets relaxers, jheri curls, texturizers, or even colors their hair is unnattractive and/or gay so yeah, always have and will be attracted to men who wear their natural hair. :thumbup:

I agree with the bolded.

IDK, I guess I'm an old school girl.. because I'd never give any guy with chemicals in his hair or pants tighter than mine the time of day. Couldn't even see myself with a guy that spends more time than me in the mirror. LOL, I need... A MAN!

(That's just my opinion.. but I wanted to let you know that I agree with you!)

pulchri2dinous 03-28-2011 03:10 PM

I was never attracted to guys with afros, but I've always loved well groomed locs. I also think some guys looks very nice with cornrows, but I could be biased, because I just love to cornrows in general :toothy6:

P.P. 03-28-2011 03:17 PM

I always thought most guys tended to be natural too.:lol:

In my 20s, I loooooved men with with huge curly-kinky hair or fros, also loved long naturally straight or wavy haired guys too....i'd watch soccer games just to drool... also musicians, artists, Ren Fair nerds, hippies etc.

One guy I really liked had this crazy, sandy, thick type 3c-4a hair. In retrospect, getting my hands in his hair was better than the sex. :laughing6:

That said, my husband has short, light brown, straight hair. I've tried in vain to get him to grow it out but, no dice. I still drool over men with lots of hair but I try to be discreet about it.:oops:

I also wonder if I was so thrilled over men with healthy long/huge hair because I was still trying to figure out how to achieve it myself.:toothy10: Actually one did give me pointers but I dismissed his advice(more rinsing, conditioner washing, gel) because his hair wasn't just like mine. Looking back, I see he was 100 percent right.

Tuchie09 03-28-2011 06:12 PM

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Originally Posted by ReynaCR (Post 1617379)
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Originally Posted by Tuchie09 (Post 1616551)
Whether I was natural or not I was always attracted to a man that wore his hair naturally. I thought that men ALWAYS wore their hair naturally to be honest :laughing2:

It's not just because I'm natural, I just think a guy who gets relaxers, jheri curls, texturizers, or even colors their hair is unnattractive and/or gay so yeah, always have and will be attracted to men who wear their natural hair. :thumbup:

I agree with the bolded.

IDK, I guess I'm an old school girl.. because I'd never give any guy with chemicals in his hair or pants tighter than mine the time of day. Couldn't even see myself with a guy that spends more time than me in the mirror. LOL, I need... A MAN!

(That's just my opinion.. but I wanted to let you know that I agree with you!)

:blob: Haha! Glad we're all on the same side! Seriously, men with dyed hair and/or chemically processed hair is a no-go to me. It all goes back to this crazy notion of me wanting my men to look like men. The only men I see with colored/relaxed hair are gay men so if a guy came up to me with relaxed hair, blonde highlights and swore up and down he was straight and I wouldn't take him seriously and ask him to be my shopping buddy or something lol.

ajna 03-28-2011 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Minnie_Mouse (Post 1617025)
I saw this man in the store one time. His dreads were on point. They were neat, small, and plentiful. They looked so pretty I did a triple take. But when I walked by him and caught a whiff.......I wondered when was the last time he washed them thangs. :-?

Aww Yuck just ruined it LOL

EllyEllyOxenFree 03-28-2011 10:45 PM

I'm not a huge fan of locs, although I think if he has the "swag" for it he can pull it off. But if a guy has a huge fro, I get all Harry Potter stupefied and stuff. I got in the elevator of my building one time, and there was this tall guy with this wild fro, and I was just staring at it, I wanted to touch it SO BAD. Then he complimented my hair and I could barely form a sentence. He wasn't even really cute, but his fro stunned me lol! Another time I was at a bar and this guy had like lion mane hair...and I made him my BFF for the night and he let me play in his hair! I was like, "Youuuurrr hair is ah-maze-ing..." I mean, there was alcohol involved, but so??? His hair was still the bomb lol.

And if he has a relaxer (oh I've seen it IRL, not just on Katt Williams) automatic deal breaker. ABSOLUTELY NOT. I shan't dabble in such tomfoolery!

Minnie_Mouse 03-28-2011 11:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Tuchie09 (Post 1616551)
I thought that men ALWAYS wore their hair naturally to be honest :laughing2:

LOL when I thought about it later I think I wrote that wrong. xD

I meant guys who wear locs, afros, twists, braids, etc. but I should've put it that way 'cause it sounds funny the other way.

ReynaCR 03-29-2011 07:13 AM

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LOL, yeah! Ya'll really made me smile today :laughing9:.


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