I live with a psycho

So this is basically an angry rant you don't have to read, although I'm sure if you were in the same situation you'd be just as furious.

Alright, so I live in a six bedroom house with five other people I go to school with. There's been a bunch of tension since December due to one of the psycho girls we live with (It's two guys and four girls) calling the cops on two of our housemates for smoking in the house (I am so serious ). Anyway, the main conflict is between this girl, her name's Kiara, and two others named Arielle and Eddie. Kiara's best friend (who is wonderful) is named Marissa. The two "neutrals" (the ones no one outwardly has any issues with) are my best friend Mike and I.

Today, I was getting dressed while talking to Mike and Eddie runs downstairs with his shampoo bottle (Tresemme, by the way. Just had to add that ) and he's screaming about how it smells like rubbing alcohol. Mike and I sniff it. Not only does it smell like rubbing alcohol, but when Eddie turns it over straight up LIQUID flows out the bottle, nothing like the usual shampoo texture. We look at each other, and just start flipping out because we ALL knew who it was.

And how did we know it was Kiara, exactly? Oh, because when Mike and I were actually closer to her last semester, she told us about her last roommate, who called her a bad name I can't exactly repeat up here. What does Kiara do in response? Nothing much, just pees in the girl's shampoo and rubs her toothbrush in the toilet. Besides, she's the only one who has a problem with him, and that shampoo would NOT just do that on its own. Especially not in one day, since Eddie told us he used it last night and it was fine.

What. The. Hell. Not only is this girl so immature it's pathetic, but I know if she sabotaged my hair stuff and I used it, I'd go to jail. I've never tried to get in the middle of others' issues before, but when Eddie confronts her tonight when she gets home I know I'm going to be there in case she tries to trip. This is so ridiculous that...ugh, I can't even. I'm just so MAD. If she did this to his stuff, she could come to the second floor bathroom and do the same to ours. How in the world am I supposed to feel comfortable living here for the rest of the semester (Me/Mike/Eddie/Arielle are moving in August)?!?!?!?!?!

Sorry. I just figured that since we all know how it is with our hair this would be a big no no even to you. At this point though it's not even about it being shampoo; it's about the fact that she has no respect for personal property.

Oh, and that with the way she's acting she has to be a ten year old in disguise.

How do you think Eddie should go about confronting her? Is there any possible way that Tresemme would just shift properties like that? (I'm sure I already know the answer to that). Like, I just have no freaking idea what's going on...

This girl is nuts. Period.

WE'RE ADULTS. I SHOULDN'T HAVE TO BE DEALING WITH THIS MIDDLE SCHOOL BS. AHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

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Somebody messing with some hair products?! Oh hell naw. Homie don't play that.

Can you all have like some type of intervention with this girl that's doing this crap? Have her evicted? This is craziness! I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. I vowed again to never have another roommate other than my sister. Too much unnecessary drama.
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Well when she gets home later Eddie plans on confronting her. I'll be there. Mike will probably be there. I don't even know if we could have her evicted because if she doesn't admit to it then our landlord would probably just be like "Well there's nothing I can do about it". I just wish I could punch her in the face and be done with it.

And yeah, I really hate all these roommates. But the four of us moving next year get along really well and give each other our space, so I'm not too worried about that. Also it will be only one other female. I can't deal with all these women. All my friends are men for a reason.

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Isn't tampering with people's stuff illegal? There has to be something they can charge her with...like criminal mischief, some mess! I don't play like that though....I probably would have tackled her in the living room.
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Tamper with her stuff right back.. what's she gonna do then?
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^^^That was my first thought too. But one-upmanship never ends well. It would only escalate until she put something in your hair products (or food!) that would do some real damage.

Sorry, I watch the ID Network a lot.
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^^^That was my first thought too. But one-upmanship never ends well. It would only escalate until she put something in your hair products (or food!) that would do some real damage.

Sorry, I watch the ID Network a lot.
Originally Posted by Phoenix
I love a good one-up fight tho. You have to do it right, in such a way that would make her think twice about trying to one-up you again.

Or just change the locks and give everyone but her the new keys.
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I'd do everything I possibly could to get the girl out the most legal way possible and without me compromising my morals. I'm not a fighter and I'm not nasty so I know I wouldn't initiate anything like that myself. This is a toughie. Sorry OP.
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Isn't tampering with people's stuff illegal? There has to be something they can charge her with...like criminal mischief, some mess! I don't play like that though....I probably would have tackled her in the living room.
Originally Posted by EllyEllyOxenFree

I know right. But I have rage.

Um don't tamper with her stuff. Sorry that's rude and stooping to her level. Confront her. Calmly. Be the bigger person. ( my red eye ass saying this? I need to learn from what I preach, cause I got mad at the computers in the library today and started shaking them and slamming the mouse around ...in front of people)

I don't know how girls cause unnecessary drama because boys cause drama too. (sorry I hate when people say girls cause drama cause I grew up with boys and I've hung around boys and let me tell you both cause drama...it.is. both.) I love girls (not like I'm a lesbian LOL but as much as I like boyish things I love to have friends who are girls..and most of my friends are girls..I like to have friends who are girls who like boyish things like star wars and vidya games ) but even when I've gotten angry with another female it's never resorted to anything nasty like that. What females do y'all be hanging around?

I mean I've seen some crazy women but they've never gotten crazy to that extent because I never let it get that far.

sorry I have to come in here again..cause that is my pet peeve...besides stereotyping umm when you say girls cause drama and boys don't ( not you but general you) what boys don't cause drama? what boys do y'all (not y'all but general y'all) know that don't cause drama, are they robots?
That is all.


let me edit to add:
thank you cocot for reminding that I want to say....I don't' mean to derail the topic but I just wanted to say that.

Last edited by meowmeow; 04-06-2011 at 04:14 PM. Reason: also lol
Isn't tampering with people's stuff illegal? There has to be something they can charge her with...like criminal mischief, some mess! I don't play like that though....I probably would have tackled her in the living room.
Originally Posted by EllyEllyOxenFree

I know right. But I have rage.

Um don't tamper with her stuff. Sorry that's rude and stooping to her level. Confront her. Calmly. Be the bigger person. ( my red eye ass saying this? I need to learn from what I preach, cause I got mad at the computers in the library today and started shaking them and slamming the mouse around ...in front of people)

I don't know how girls cause unnecessary drama because boys cause drama too. (sorry I hate when people say girls cause drama cause I grew up with boys and I've hung around boys and let me tell you both cause drama...it.is. both.) I love girls (not like I'm a lesbian LOL but as much as I like boyish things I love to have friends who are girls..and most of my friends are girls..I like to have friends who are girls who like boyish things like star wars and vidya games ) but even when I've gotten angry with another female it's never resorted to anything nasty like that. What females do y'all be hanging around?

I mean I've seen some crazy women but they've never gotten crazy to that extent because I never let it get that far.
Originally Posted by meowmeow
I'm sayin!

Don't wanna derail the thread though. Just wanna cosign to that
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Isn't tampering with people's stuff illegal? There has to be something they can charge her with...like criminal mischief, some mess! I don't play like that though....I probably would have tackled her in the living room.
Originally Posted by EllyEllyOxenFree

I know right. But I have rage.

Um don't tamper with her stuff. Sorry that's rude and stooping to her level. Confront her. Calmly. Be the bigger person. ( my red eye ass saying this? I need to learn from what I preach, cause I got mad at the computers in the library today and started shaking them and slamming the mouse around ...in front of people)

I don't know how girls cause unnecessary drama because boys cause drama too. (sorry I hate when people say girls cause drama cause I grew up with boys and I've hung around boys and let me tell you both cause drama...it.is. both.) I love girls (not like I'm a lesbian LOL but as much as I like boyish things I love to have friends who are girls..and most of my friends are girls..I like to have friends who are girls who like boyish things like star wars and vidya games ) but even when I've gotten angry with another female it's never resorted to anything nasty like that. What females do y'all be hanging around?

I mean I've seen some crazy women but they've never gotten crazy to that extent because I never let it get that far.
Originally Posted by meowmeow
I'm sayin!

Don't wanna derail the thread though. Just wanna cosign to that
Originally Posted by CocoT
I don't wanna derail but let me jump in on that cosign...dudes are all ABOUT THE GOSSIP yet when they do it they call it "lookin out." Mhmmm, one of the biggest gossip queens I know is a man...every time I see him he always has some tea for me...
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LOL tea for me hahahahahah *dying*
LOL tea for me hahahahahah *dying*
Originally Posted by meowmeow
Mhhmmm and it's always piping hot and full of sweetness...
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LOL I'm not trying to say that boys DON'T cause drama, because I know anyone in any gender can start some mess. I'm just saying in my experience I have less trouble with males than females. That's all I meant. It's different for different people

Thanks though everyone. I just needed to vent. The guy told his sisters about it and apparently they're all pissed and coming over...I'm just gonna go to sleep or something. This is too much. Lol

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Yeah i would call the cops on her and when they come act really terrified for your safety, remind them that there were witnesses, make up a story about how you think she's suicidal so they have to take her into custody (if they seem unwilling to escort her off the premises) Someone that crazy would probably flip out on the spot if you even mention them being *OFF* and give the cops plenty of evidence right there in the foyer for them to haul her crazy butt off. Or tell them you think she's hearing voices because you catch her talking to herself and you hear her saying violent things and you believe she put rubbing alcohol in the bottle because the voices told her too. If she says it was you or the guy who did it demand the police dust it for her prints.
LOL I'm not trying to say that boys DON'T cause drama, because I know anyone in any gender can start some mess. I'm just saying in my experience I have less trouble with males than females. That's all I meant. It's different for different people

Thanks though everyone. I just needed to vent. The guy told his sisters about it and apparently they're all pissed and coming over...I'm just gonna go to sleep or something. This is too much. Lol
Originally Posted by itsKelCeeEee
Yea you do that lol...there's about to be a brawl...!
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Yeah i would call the cops on her and when they come act really terrified for your safety, remind them that there were witnesses, make up a story about how you think she's suicidal so they have to take her into custody (if they seem unwilling to escort her off the premises) Someone that crazy would probably flip out on the spot if you even mention them being *OFF* and give the cops plenty of evidence right there in the foyer for them to haul her crazy butt off. Or tell them you think she's hearing voices because you catch her talking to herself and you hear her saying violent things and you believe she put rubbing alcohol in the bottle because the voices told her too. If she says it was you or the guy who did it demand the police dust it for her prints.
Originally Posted by Lanisha
Oh, god no. At this point we've all touched the bottle so we'd ALL be going to jail.

And I WOULD do something to make them question her sanity...but I have severe clinical depression myself that's caused my to hallucinate/hear things (I'm okay now, I swear) and I'd hate it if someone brought something up like that to use against me. I know she dun did wrong, but I just couldn't go there.

Basically, we're all screwed until May (I'm pretty sure she's going home for the summer. Hopefully)

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Originally Posted by Jamtastic Voyage!
Best gif ever.

That woman's face when she tries to run away.

Priceless.
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Yeah i would call the cops on her and when they come act really terrified for your safety, remind them that there were witnesses, make up a story about how you think she's suicidal so they have to take her into custody (if they seem unwilling to escort her off the premises) Someone that crazy would probably flip out on the spot if you even mention them being *OFF* and give the cops plenty of evidence right there in the foyer for them to haul her crazy butt off. Or tell them you think she's hearing voices because you catch her talking to herself and you hear her saying violent things and you believe she put rubbing alcohol in the bottle because the voices told her too. If she says it was you or the guy who did it demand the police dust it for her prints.
Originally Posted by Lanisha
Oh, god no. At this point we've all touched the bottle so we'd ALL be going to jail.

And I WOULD do something to make them question her sanity...but I have severe clinical depression myself that's caused my to hallucinate/hear things (I'm okay now, I swear) and I'd hate it if someone brought something up like that to use against me. I know she dun did wrong, but I just couldn't go there.

Basically, we're all screwed until May (I'm pretty sure she's going home for the summer. Hopefully)
Originally Posted by itsKelCeeEee
Yeah but putting alcohol in someone shampoo bottle could result in seriously injuring that person. I can just see someone not paying attention in the shower with the water running and all, reach for the bottle of shampoo with the intention of pouring a little on their head. That could have turned into something serious (eyes!) and then her a$$ would have to go to jail anyway.

I don't think she has limits and it could only get worse if she keeps getting the message that what she's doing is "all good".

Calling the cops on her is not "using something against her", its protecting yourself.
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