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10-06-2011, 01:23 PM
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#81
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 120
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It doesn't work for me either and I'm pretty sure I'm a 4a with thin hair. I have to seriously dilute the shea butter with either water or whip it with aloe vera or another conditioner. By itself it is too much for my hair and just sits there. I have thin hair though so I think this is the problem with using the heavy shea butter by itself. I have something of the same problem with castor oil, it's just too thick by itself for my hair.
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Hair type: the back and sides have small spiraly curls, the top and front just wave like, "hi! how ya doin?"
Condish: ElucenceMBC, HEHH, my kitchen mixes
Moisturizer: mixed spritz of: H20, aloe vera juice, honey, EVCO, ElucenceMBC
Curl Definer: H20 & a shake, my moisturizer mix.... or aloe vera/flax seed/ic fantsia gel if I'm not being lazy.
Styles: wash-n-go, twists just curl up like my wash-n-go
KinkyKurlyKustard is the DEBIL! The DEBIL!
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10-06-2011, 01:27 PM
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#82
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Join Date: Jul 2011
Posts: 237
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Wow.
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10-06-2011, 01:34 PM
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#83
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Posts: 833
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Oh okay. Well then I don't know what naturally curly is talking about. LOL. At least most of us are in agreement that curl size doesn't mean much. Too bad we can't have a pop-up on the 4a forum for newbies explaning that.
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“Mama says pretty comes in all different sizes. And my size… is cute!” -Honey Boo Boo
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10-06-2011, 01:34 PM
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#84
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Join Date: Aug 2011
Posts: 1,128
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I don't like to call things stupid but...hair typing is stupid. If you "need" it in order to describe your hair...um what? Whatever happened to using, oh, I don't know, words? Curly, tightly curled, wavy, etc? IMO that argument/justification for hair typing is terrible. It's like before there was hair typing, we grunted and made noises to describe our hair.
Also, there are some NC vets with type 2 and 3 hair that have expressed their dislike/nonconcurrence with hair typing, so the notion that type 4s are the only ones knocking it is incorrect.
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10-06-2011, 01:40 PM
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#85
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Join Date: Jul 2011
Posts: 237
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My strands are on the coarser side and, based on the information gathered from this thread, I would have been characterized as a type 4 hater, and shea butter doesn't work for me either. It may have to do with the porosity of my hair.
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10-06-2011, 01:41 PM
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#86
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 120
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I have to co-sign with cerendipity/shawny on the being able to look like so-called 3c....I can do it pretty easily just by moisturizing too but I prefer my separated thin 4a curls that happen when I shake and go with nothing but water on it. If I use moisturizers beyond water I definitely get a larger curl with no real effort involved. Matter of fact, I can run my fingers through my wet hair and get bigger curls. Plus I'm noticing that the longer my hair gets, the more the curls hang/loosen....people really shouldn't knock something that they don't have any experience with. Just because you can't get your hair to look differently doesn't mean that others can't. Everybody wants to be special.... I'll make it look the way I want and then some.....matter of fact I can make it look like a 2b/3a with waves if I want with no effort but the use of a brush. <shrugs> seriously it's just hair. Some people just don't care whether other people think their hair "looks 3c". I'm with shawny, it'll look how I want it to look. There's no difference between 3c and 4a to me, since most 4a's can get bigger curls too they just don't bother with it.
Personally, hair typing never helped me with my hair. I find the best products based on my porosity and density, nothing much to do with my hair type.
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Hair type: the back and sides have small spiraly curls, the top and front just wave like, "hi! how ya doin?"
Condish: ElucenceMBC, HEHH, my kitchen mixes
Moisturizer: mixed spritz of: H20, aloe vera juice, honey, EVCO, ElucenceMBC
Curl Definer: H20 & a shake, my moisturizer mix.... or aloe vera/flax seed/ic fantsia gel if I'm not being lazy.
Styles: wash-n-go, twists just curl up like my wash-n-go
KinkyKurlyKustard is the DEBIL! The DEBIL!
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10-06-2011, 01:54 PM
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#87
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Join Date: May 2011
Posts: 302
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I agree with all this. Im still learning how to get the results I want. I have noticed certain moisturizers loosen my curls alot. I personaly dont care for the looser curls. For me the tighter the better, and I like a little frizz too. A couple of times I have gotten it to come out tight like 4a, but I dont know how I did it. Thats what I want every day. Just gotta keep playin with it.
Sorry for getting off topic..
Sent from my PG06100 using CurlTalk App
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10-06-2011, 02:15 PM
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#88
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Posts: 1,002
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Wellll I'm not the one trying to generalize and say that those who don't agree with something must have self hatred, so I'm pretty sure the majority of our pride is intact, thanks.
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Big Chop: 11/25/09
Cottony/fluffy, medium/coarse, high density & porosity
SL - APL - BSB - BSL - MBL - WL - HL
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10-06-2011, 02:29 PM
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#89
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Join Date: Jun 2011
Posts: 125
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nope
I'd have no problem with being in the "4a" category actually it would make things simpler, I just don't think my hair exactly fits smoothly into either of the "boxes"
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10-06-2011, 02:34 PM
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#90
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Posts: 833
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I understand, but your hair doesn't have to fit into one of those boxes for you to learn how to take proper care of it. Do you know your texture, density and porosity? Maybe you could try determing your hair care based on those three things instead of curl size as many have suggested in this thread.
ETA: so why do you think you aren't 4a? Are you basing this on something other than the size of your curls?
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“Mama says pretty comes in all different sizes. And my size… is cute!” -Honey Boo Boo
Last edited by NaturallyCJ; 10-06-2011 at 02:45 PM.
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10-06-2011, 03:16 PM
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#91
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 120
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I don't fit either so I understand what you mean. That's why I stopped trying to use the typing system at all, because I truly didn't fit into either/or. Most people don't fit into either/or. It truly is a ridiculous way of caring for the hair. I don't think you mean you want to be a 3 or 4, just that you'd like to know where to go for guidance with your hair. I tried the "boxes" at first, took me less than a month to realize that even using what someone else did just because their hair "looked" more like mine, didn't really mean it was going to work for me. I definitely have to go by the ingredients that are best suited for my high porosity, thin density hair.
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Hair type: the back and sides have small spiraly curls, the top and front just wave like, "hi! how ya doin?"
Condish: ElucenceMBC, HEHH, my kitchen mixes
Moisturizer: mixed spritz of: H20, aloe vera juice, honey, EVCO, ElucenceMBC
Curl Definer: H20 & a shake, my moisturizer mix.... or aloe vera/flax seed/ic fantsia gel if I'm not being lazy.
Styles: wash-n-go, twists just curl up like my wash-n-go
KinkyKurlyKustard is the DEBIL! The DEBIL!
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10-06-2011, 04:20 PM
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#92
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 527
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I never got the real difference between 3c and 4a anyway. And even 3d is pushing it a little more. I mean, it's like the difference between an A- and B+. Not much really, if anything just enough to make you feel good by saying it's an A. Pointwise, not much at all.
I know it's human nature to wanna label things and put them in boxes. But our hair is too unique to adhere to 1 standard. Just say it's _, _, and _ and call it a day. If you wanna call it 3d and give the label some power, do you. But seeing how most of us (again, most) stepped outside a box to go natural, I can't help but wonder why would someone go through such lengths to put themselves back in one? That's where all the side-eyes come in. Just my 2 pennies.....
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Last perm 8/07, big chop 5/08, several mini chops since
Fine, medium density, low porosity. PJ in recovery
Current loves:Tressemme Nats, AO GPB, One and Only Argan Oil Hydrating Mask, Alba Botanicals Leave-in, KCKT, Qhemet BRBC & OHHB, Terresentials Mud Wash, Trader Joes Nourish Spa
"Be the change you want to see in the world." - Gandhi
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10-06-2011, 06:01 PM
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#93
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As it has been previously pointed out, the 3c category was not created by Andre Walker. So if your curls are not the size of 3b then that would make you a type 4 if you want to be technical about it. That's why it doesn't matter. You can be type 3, type 17, type infinity if you want. Seriously, it's something some guy made up. My hair doesn't know or care who Andre Walker is.  If looking at someone else's hair that you believe to be similar to yours helps you figure out styling and products then it is awesome that it works for you! Whatever works, keep doing that and your hair will flourish.
I will also say that you cannot tell what somebody else's hair looks like based off pictures. You just can't. Too many factors come into play when taking a photograph of anything as to what the final outcome of the picture will be like. Most of the shots we see are texture shots, so the camera is zoomed in far or it is up close to the hair strands so that people can see it well. Different products will make hair respond differently, as will other factors.
Outside of hair boards, nobody knows what I am talking about when I say my hair is 4a. Most of the things that work for the 4a ladies on this forum do not work for me at all. I had to develop my own regimen based on how my hair responded to what I did to it.
In conclusion, if your hair is type Slinky or type Ramen Noodle, type wool, or type cotton ball, then whip it back and forth and keep it moving. Life is so short and things like this just shouldn't hold weight. Take care. I'll be lurking.
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10-06-2011, 08:03 PM
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#94
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Join Date: Sep 2011
Posts: 143
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Funny how people with type 4 kinky hair are the only or main ones on the entire board who take so much issue with the hair typing system. Everyone else on the board seem to utilize for what it was meant for just fine.
In conclusion I like the typing system it has been a huge help in develping my hair style and routine and I'll continue to believe what I think above. That some of ya'll appear to have some huge insecurities when it comes to your hair textures and it's a real shame imo as it's part of who you are as black women.
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10-06-2011, 08:11 PM
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#95
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Join Date: Sep 2011
Posts: 143
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@ the bolded
a. Who said anything about anyone feeling or trying to feel special? Is that how you feel about people with certain hair types? All I've heard mentioned is differentiating different hair types to help with researching style and care options.
b. the difference between 4a and 3c is 3c doesn't have to do anything to their hair to get said curls. Setting or maniputlating the hair to acheive looser curls or waves is NOT the same type of hair as someone who's hair does that on it's own without manipulation. It doesn't look or behave the same either LOL.
This is rediculous. A bunch of black women who don't want to be acknowledged as having the kind of hair that they have. No 4a hair will never look like 3a hair.
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10-06-2011, 08:25 PM
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#96
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 120
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Wow..are you stalking me in my shower or after I wash my hair? Cuz i love how you think you know what my hair does when you're not present.......and what is the deal with "a bunch of black women"...for all you know I'm not black, I just have dark skin and curly hair.....gotta love people who make ASSumptions about something they have no experience with.
So done. I'm off to do my beautiful 4a-OMG!-it-looks-like-3c! hair.....
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Hair type: the back and sides have small spiraly curls, the top and front just wave like, "hi! how ya doin?"
Condish: ElucenceMBC, HEHH, my kitchen mixes
Moisturizer: mixed spritz of: H20, aloe vera juice, honey, EVCO, ElucenceMBC
Curl Definer: H20 & a shake, my moisturizer mix.... or aloe vera/flax seed/ic fantsia gel if I'm not being lazy.
Styles: wash-n-go, twists just curl up like my wash-n-go
KinkyKurlyKustard is the DEBIL! The DEBIL!
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10-06-2011, 08:31 PM
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#97
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Posts: 7,814
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I was thinking the same thing cause needles come in different sizes
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10-06-2011, 08:32 PM
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#98
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Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 1,115
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Foxy where you at? It is smelling mighty troll-y up in here.
And if you are going to say ' redicioulous' over and over, please use google chrome or firefox.They underline your misspelled words...
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10-06-2011, 08:35 PM
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#99
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Join Date: Sep 2009
Posts: 5,075
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Lololol cheve
Yeahhhhhboi, Im on my smartphone!!!
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10-06-2011, 08:44 PM
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#100
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Join Date: Aug 2011
Posts: 1,128
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Ummmmm...type 4 hair can be curly without manipulating it.
Not everyone with type 4 hair has a cottony afro (not that there is anything wrong with that kind of hair). You sure have a lot to say about hair that you clearly know nothing about.
A bunch of black women? Marinate on what was wrong with addressing people in that manner, and come back when you're ready.
I'm on a boat.
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Last edited by CurlyElectra; 10-06-2011 at 08:51 PM.
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