Its true. To the original poster, if you're ready, do your big chop and show him jsut how beautiful YOU are. He was attracted to you when you first started dating, so, if its real, he shouldnt be suddenly put off just by your hairstyle. You dont need to compare yourself or your hair to other sexy/provocative models, its all about you. I understand that he may not be used to seeing natural hair, but thats what makes it all the better, show him something he's never seen, it makes it more interesting that way.So true. He may be interested in fantastic colored dense 3b-4a hair, and after your BC you may end up with fine and low density strands that you can't color.OP I understand what you're trying to do but like others have said, if it takes all that then it is not worth it. What if he likes the pics and your hair turns out to be nothing like the pics?
At the end of the day if he truly wants YOU he will see your hair as an extension of you and except it all regardless of social issues.
You are surely worth more than this.
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