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if it's been 4 years, AND she lives far away, i doubt she'd even care. i would hope she'd have moved on by now.

if you guys don't talk regularly, i wouldn't make a point of telling her. she'll find out when she finds out.
Originally Posted by Keenylicious
I forgot to add that I KNOW she still has feelings for him. They talk every now and again but he's no longer interested. She came to visit a month or so ago (she did not make an effort to see me) and when she was here she called him begging him to have sex with her. He said no and she got mad. She did call me and tell me about that but I was glad that he said no because I was eyeing him up! lol
Originally Posted by IAmJordanNicole
uhhh... i still stand by my original advice, just for different reasons now:

1) she must not value your friendship if she came in town to see some dude that doesn't want her, and made no effort to see her actual friend... wait, did she only remember your name after he rejected her, or did she at least tell you she was coming to town?

2)umm... anyone that shameless and desperate is NOT gonna take the news well. i'd wait til y'all officially have a thing going before letting her know. she might try to plant seeds of doubt in his ind about you or something.

but like... she called him and begged him for sex? and he said no? and she got upset about it? AND she told a third party about it?! now, i've never even had the first three things happen to me, but if it ever did, i DEF wouldn't tell anyone else about it. i'd take that w/ me to the grave, and if he ever told anyone, i'd deny it to the death. i do NOT want folks knowing i was ever that desperate. too much paynus out here for all that.
Originally Posted by Keenylicious
This made me laugh!!!

In her defense, I did know that she was coming and she didn't come to town just to see him. She actually didn't end up seeing either of us.

I think she's been getting suspicious of our relationship because of social networks. Like he'll check in and tag me with him, or I'll tweet pics of us. She has called me and said, "so I see you and L have been hanging out a lot" I just say yeah and move on. He says she's called and said the same.

She has NO filter and will tell ALL of her business, so I wasn't surprised when she told me that. He actually wasn't going to mention it, I brought it up to him. I think the fact that he turned her down attracted me to him more because I felt it was very gentlemen like. Most men, I feel would have used her.

I want to avoid drama if I can...but out of respect I'd hate for her to find out from anywhere but me, ya know?

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where did this myth about all white ppl having nice hair and being well spoken come from (rhetorical)? and WHY do folks STILL believe it w/ so much evidence to the contrary?!

for one, i see more fried and dyed, getting snatched bald by a light breeze hair having white girls on a daily basis than i do healthy heads. the only healthy heads i see are kids, athletes who don't really do much to their hair, and ppl who make a conscious effort to keep their hair healthy.

and they may have their own way of speaking, but that doesn't make them well spoken. their grammatical and syntactical errors aren't any better just b/c they have a different accent.

also... i think it is possible to sound black or white, i just don't think it has anything to do with eloquence or education. it's something about our voices and the rhythm of our speech that makes the difference. idk, but there's a clear difference b/w a white southerner's way of speaking, and a black one imo.

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So, I'm having a little moral dilemma...I don't know if any of you have read my thread about me being in love(intense like, really) with my best friend, but it's a whole soap opera. Things are great between us, and I guess we're dating now.

Anyway, the dilemma is that he used to date a friend of mine(they broke up 4 years ago, and I'm the one who hooked them up). She moved to another state and we don't talk much anymore. Am I obligated to tell her what's going on with our relationship out of respect, or should I wait and see if him and I become official first? I wouldn't want her to find out on her own via Facebook or something later down the line.
Originally Posted by IAmJordanNicole
Hmmm...you don't know me from Adam, but you didn't direct the question to anyone in particular so I'm offering an unpopular opinion...that's your friend, you still care about her, yall haven't fallen out over anything else...you should tell her, not let her find out from anyone else.

I can tell many of the ladies on this board are still pretty young (early 20s) and you will learn as you go on you will lose contact with many people that you will still love from afar. I have friends that I consider my sisters STILL, but I haven't talked to them in a year or two even. Life will take many of your relationships in different directions, that doesn't mean you stop caring enough to respect your friends that you still love, no matter how afar they are.

When I read your posts, I could tell that you want to tell her. It's the harder thing to do, but it's also the right thing to do.
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I do not like daylight savings time. Well, I don't like to lose an hour aka "spring forward."

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Originally Posted by Chicago Kinks
i completely forgot (as usual). no wonder it jumped from 1 am to 3 am so quickly. they really need to find a way to transition us into it smoothly. i hate feeling crazy when they make the shift.
I didn't even know it was daylight savings time until now.

I don't have work or school on Monday's so I will be good anyway.


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I do not like daylight savings time. Well, I don't like to lose an hour aka "spring forward."

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Originally Posted by Chicago Kinks
i completely forgot (as usual). no wonder it jumped from 1 am to 3 am so quickly. they really need to find a way to transition us into it smoothly. i hate feeling crazy when they make the shift.
Originally Posted by Keenylicious
I remember reading that the time change is not healthy. I have to agree, it takes me weeks to adjust since I'm such an earlier riser. Its like until I adjust I'm constantly rushing and running late for those first few weeks.

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How do you change the time from you mobile device? The posts from my iPod are the wrong time.

This is gonna get on my nerves. I already know.


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I also hate daylight savings time. It messed me up last night because I was at a party and left there a little after 1AM. When I got home, it was 3AM, although it didn't take me two hours to get home. It only took me around 45 minutes, but the clocks jumped ahead. I'm dead tired now.

Also, at the party, this guy tried to talk to me but I was not into him. He was 4 inches shorter than me, for one thing. I dated two short guys in the past and they were both disasters, so I've resolved not to date short men ever again. It was over when we took a break from dancing to sit down and he went, "Nice hair" and reached out with his grubby little hand and touched it. I immediately slapped his hand away. He apparently never got the memo that you don't touch the hair. Especially a black woman's hair. He immediately disappeared after that.
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Halle Berry is engaged again. Really Halle? Really?!?

Blame it on the cell phone...

Last edited by subbrock; 03-11-2012 at 12:17 PM.
Halle Berry I engaged again. Really Halle? Really?!?

Blame it on the cell phone...
Originally Posted by subbrock
Poor fella, she is a very beautiful woman but there is something troubling with her....

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is beezids a utter scam?
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It's not a scam - but there is a chance you could spend money and not win anything.

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Halle Berry is engaged again. Really Halle? Really?!?

Blame it on the cell phone...
Originally Posted by subbrock
I think she is in love with the idea of being in love, much like J.Lo and Kim Kardashian. There are some folks that don't know how to function w/o being in a "serious relationship" with somebody at any given time. I know people like this personally. They let no real time pass between relationships and they will have boyfriend, after boyfriend, after fiance, after fiance, after husband, after husband... that seems like it would be exhausting to me. How to you heal from one situation to the next?
Halle Berry is engaged again. Really Halle? Really?!?

Blame it on the cell phone...
Originally Posted by subbrock
I think she is in love with the idea of being in love, much like J.Lo and Kim Kardashian. There are some folks that don't know how to function w/o being in a "serious relationship" with somebody at any given time. I know people like this personally. They let no real time pass between relationships and they will have boyfriend, after boyfriend, after fiance, after fiance, after husband, after husband... that seems like it would be exhausting to me. How to you heal from one situation to the next?
Originally Posted by FoxyCleopatraGuide
That's the point, I think. You don't. You run away from the problem, distract yourself from really looking at the issue for what it is. A lack of self-esteem and self-love.
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