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Being an adult and working is so stupid, I just spent half my day on moving a box on an org chart.

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Originally Posted by CurlyElectra
Sometimes I spend half my day cutting and moving text around on a screen. Just as dumb.
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Anyone ever date a workaholic?
Originally Posted by Cerendipity
Yes. Years ago. And I was miserable. He also traveled frequently for his job. I also need to add that he was divorced and had a son who lived in another state and he wasn't the type to ignore the kid. Between the demands of his job and his responsibities as a father, obviously, I was not a big priority. I'd see him maybe once every six weeks on average. The fact that his son took precedence over me didn't bother me as much as it would a lot of other women. So many other men shirk their responsibilities to their children that it was commendable that he actually took responsibility for his son, which showed that he had great character. All the overtime at the job, though? That bothered me. Anyone who wants something or someone bad enough will make a good effort to get it. Once every six weeks is not any effort. It took me two years to end it, though it really should have been much sooner.
Originally Posted by LadyV69
Thanks for your insight,


I dated someone I never saw during the week for 6 months( last year). We did see each other every Saturday or Sunday though. I'm trying to decide if I want to start again.

I have a friend who was in ministry and quit cause she likes to dance and felt like she couldn't. It seems overly restrictive to me. I'm not sure that God is sitting on the throne saying dancing is the debil. Sounds more to me like people are saying that. Clubbing all the time where you're neglecting responsibility, being loose with men in the club, getting drunk and losing inhibition - that's the stuff. I think it's not the action itself, but what it leads to and what accompanies it that's dangerous. But that's just me...
Originally Posted by Kinky DaySha
I was a hotmess when I went out. drank till I blacked out every time. I've basically been sober since 08 besides one night. which reminded why I can't drink or be out in clubs. I don't think anything is wrong w dancin plenty of ppl at my congregation go out just don't go wild like I used to. for ME I can't cause one thing leads to another for me. being around ppl drinking in my old atmosphere is dangerous for me.



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Originally Posted by sweetmx85
Yes! Thats what I mean. Drinking until old boy who wouldnt have a snowballs chance in hell of hollering at me starting to look attractive..Remember Bobby Brown before the makeover in Two Can Play That Game.
Yeah..."But gurlll, He smelled so goodd". Yeah, No.
Originally Posted by Truqueen01
Lol! Gurlll..he was still oogly after too.

I feel you. When I was in AIT, I was a hot mess to. I won't give details, but umm...yeah. But I got married and had kids and realized how miserable I was..hangovers, stalkers, etc...it was kray.

Now me and my husband go out every now and then, mostly jazz or reggae clubs, every blue moon a regular ol sugadaddy on the wall tooth pick suckin pimp cup holdin club. I may sip a drink, or wine. I still drop it, just on my husband. Then we go home. Simple enough for me.
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dr appt was good. they couldn't hear the heartbeat on the doppler but pulled it up on the ultrasound. the only problem is how much weight I've lost. a total f 16 lbs from my first visit. ten my second appt and another 6 today :/ she said I need to increased calories if I COULD eat I would. a few bites in and everything comes up :/


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Originally Posted by sweetmx85
I feel your pain. I was sick for the whole pregnancy with my daughter and lost 30 lbs! It was better with my son; I was only sick for about 6 months.

Are you on any meds for the nausea?
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I am exhausted and I still have to pick up my kid from Hebrew school, get dinner ready,do laundry, and get stuff ready for my husband party at synagogue. Lawd!
I should add I don't want to go back to the military next year :/

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I'm excited about this semester. I actully like the classes I'm taking.

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Originally Posted by amcme2
I said that last semester and by the end of it I only liked 2 classes out of 6.
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dr appt was good. they couldn't hear the heartbeat on the doppler but pulled it up on the ultrasound. the only problem is how much weight I've lost. a total f 16 lbs from my first visit. ten my second appt and another 6 today :/ she said I need to increased calories if I COULD eat I would. a few bites in and everything comes up :/


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Originally Posted by sweetmx85
Are they treating you for hyperemisis?

Blame it on the cell phone...
Originally Posted by subbrock
they have yet to say that word to me. other ppl have said it but they haven't. today she said if I keep losing weight I'm going to end up in the hospital. they've prescribed me anti nausea meds but that stuff has bad side effects, horrible constipation which leads to ( sry for tmi) horrible hemrroids. i tried it and stopped after the latter happened. it also dissolves under ur tongue and the flavor of it makes me sick instantly. I had to drink something w a strong flavor to try to keep it down. I'm allergic to phenegren.



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Being an adult and working is so stupid, I just spent half my day on moving a box on an org chart.

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Originally Posted by CurlyElectra
Sometimes I spend half my day cutting and moving text around on a screen. Just as dumb.
Originally Posted by LadyV69
No I mean I've spent half the day arguing/justifying why the box should be moved - it's really not that serious, people!!! Golly.
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I actually don't think Christina Aguilera is fat. However, I do think she needs to dress for her size and not try to stuff her body into clothing she fit a year ago. That's just bad form. Also, she def needs a bra. But...that pic up there is just BAD. She is wearing too much makeup and laughing so her face looks like it's plastered on, that dress is tacky...and she really needs to let go of that platinum blonde hair. Her wigs/weaves/whatever STAY looking a mess. I would rather her fix that before she loses weight. The pics in this video have her looking much better - Christima Aguilera Says People Making Fun of Her Weight Doesn't Bother Her - YouTube. I wonder if people would still be calling her fat if they never knew how tiny she used to be or if she were a WOC. Just sayin.
Originally Posted by CurlyElectra
Yeah, age looks a lot better in that vid. She even has that same dress on in one of those pics. I guess the pic foxy posted was just a REALLY bad angle, b/c I'll be darned if her body didn't look like someone's granny tryna be sexy in that pic.

I don't think she's fat at all really, but I dont think the extra weight suits her body. Her thighs are bigger than her hips, which causes that weird indentation. But there are celebs out there A LOT bigger.


This reminds me of that season of bgc where everyone was drooling over the black "video vixen" girl's body, but going in on the white girl, calling her fat when she was actually smaller and had less body fat than the black girl. And they had pretty much the same shape. I was so confused lol.

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Originally Posted by Keenylicious
Fat? Not at all. Dead wrong? All day.





I agree the majority of the problem is in her styling. Yes she has put on weight but wearing clothes that are unflattering and too small make her body look a lot worse than it is. She looks a few months pregnant here. This dress is too small. They tried to spanx her up, but the dress still too small. Put it back on the rack and get one that fits properly! Lol

And anytime you try to regard yourself as a sex symbol in the media, of course ppl will notice and put you on blast when you aren't at your best.





Her head is still in that stage of the game and her body isn't right now.
Actually I remember people were calling her fat when she came out with the Dirrrty video or whatever because she didn't look like a stick figure anymore. Po' thang, can't win. But yes her stylist needs to be fired. They keep her looking like she just flounced out of her mobile home. HER HAIR!!! She needs a new hair stylist too.
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Aguleria look fat to me because she keeps stuffing her body in stuff that she know to damn small. In reality she isnt obese but she sure as hell look sloppy and stank.
And people wonder why so many women, girls, and even boys and men have so many body image issues.
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My FIL done left my MIL...while she gets on my nerves and we truly don't get along, she is a good wife, mother and grandmother. I feel for her but hubby says he is neutral, his dad talked to him about it during Christmas and he hasn't been happy for many years and he feels its time. Sad...

I'm not going to be able to stay out of it, she may try and move up in here and then I will be headed to divorce court...or to jail on capital murder charges.

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Filling out adoption papers and going over family profiles...

this is so overwhelming.


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Filling out adoption papers and going over family profiles...

this is so overwhelming.
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It is very overwhelming but the payoff (parenthood) is so rewarding.

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And people wonder why so many women, girls, and even boys and men have so many body image issues.
Originally Posted by CocoT
That's why I don't really call people fat unless I just overall don't like them, lol. I don't give a damn how much people weigh; I'm not trying to give anyone a complex. Do you, boo boo, is my motto.
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